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Having A Great Relationship

Looking for love? Convinced you will always be alone? Well, despair no more! The truth is that if you really want a great relationship, you really can get one.

manifesting a relationship
Manifestation can get you a relationship.

We’re talking here about the law of attraction & manifestation.

If you’re not into these two processes, the interesting thing about skepticism in this area is that almost everybody I know has had at least one experience which is clearly the universe work manifesting – “magically” – those things which we least expect.

For example, have you ever had a telephone call from a friend immediately after you’ve thought about them?

This is such a common experience that you probably have indeed had it several times in your life, though you might never have stopped to wonder what was going on.

Almost everyone who experiences this will pause for a moment to reflect on how it’s “remarkable”, but the deeper issues and meaning of such events generally escape us because we are focused on the material world – not the spiritual.

The material vs the spiritual
We are focused on the material world, not the spiritual.

When you stop to think about it, though, this is absolutely phenomenal – that there is some kind of telepathic information being transmitted through some medium between the mind of the person who is about to call you and your mind.

That’s why you know they’re about to call you – and then the telephone rings. This is “thought transference” in its clearest, simplest and most obvious form. But how does it work?

The answer is that it works in exactly the same way as manifestation through the Law of Attraction; which can manifest you a reality that might be unimaginable at the moment.

Books like The Secret made it obvious to us that there is a body of belief in the world which says that you can get whatever you want using the power of your mind.

In essence, that is manifestation – the appearance of goods, people, objects, and things such as sexual relationships between men and women on the physical plane, with the results brought about by using intention, conscious awareness, visualization, and the focus of your mind on your desired objective.

Although many people who work with the Law Of Attraction would insist that isn’t necessary to understand the mechanism by which this communication happens, we can assume that there is some kind of universal intelligence or energy or substrate through which thoughts and other intentions can be communicated.

This communication occurs between human brains, and between a single human brain and the universal intelligence. It’s also possible to assume that when this happens, thoughts are manifested in physical form through some process of reality creation under the control of the universal intelligence.

Now if this is true, and you can manifest anything you want including people, events, places and “strange coincidences“, then it follows that you can manifest a relationship if you intend to do so.

The precursors of this manifestation in reality are clear intention, firm belief in the possibility of manifestation, a real desire for a relationship, a belief that the relationship is going to appear, and the ability on your part hold negative beliefs about the impossibility of manifestation at bay.

And of course it’s hard to believe in the eternal physical manifestation of things from the universal energy field – we are not by nature spiritual beings; or, rather, our main focus is the everyday material world which impacts our lives on the surface of this planet.

But if you can shift your perspective, and consider for a moment the widespread belief in a higher power commonly called “God” or the gods, and add to that the events which you have experienced in your own life, such as the telephone ringing immediately after you’ve thought of a friend, and them being on the line, then you might find it easier to believe in the possibility of thought transference, telepathy, and reality creation in the form of manifestation.

I’m not asking you to stretch your belief system beyond the bounds of credibility, but to consider the possibility that there is another dimension to our existence beyond that which our physical senses reveal to us.

And course when this becomes a real  possibility for you, your mind naturally opens to the possibility of using that extra dimension of existence to manifest reality.

As I said at the start of this piece you really can get a relationship if you want one, and the techniques aren’t that difficult – you can find out how to do it by clicking on the link at the head of this piece, or by reading any other good website or book on manifestation of love and relationships using the law of attraction.

I wouldn’t actually recommend The Secret, because I don’t think it explains the process of manifestation particularly well, but if you want to look at it it’s great as a motivational piece for increasing your enthusiasm and belief in the possibility of reality creation.

And one thing that I do want to mention before I close this piece is the fact that it’s necessary to take action – a lot of people, perhaps conditioned from birth to expect things to fall into their laps, believe that it’s possible to manifest reality by sitting around on their asses, just visualizing an outcome.

Perhaps it is, but my belief system is that it is necessary to take action, action in the world which will tell the universe that you’re serious about your intention, and allow it plenty of opportunity to manifest your desired outcome in physical form.

Manifestation and Law Of Attraction

Manifestation and the law of attraction are currently subjects that are high on everybody’s agenda – because no matter what you say about what you’re doing in the world, actions speak louder than words.

What I mean by “actions speak louder than words” is this: that you can talk a good talk, but only when you walk your talk do you truly find that the universe responds to your intentions and manifests your greatest and deepest desires.

I think many people reading this will already have come across the concept manifestation on the Law of attraction in works like The Secret.

Indeed, you may already have tried to use the concept of the law of attraction to get what you want, but found it problematical, difficult – or even downright impossible.

Most people find that when they start using the law of attraction to get what they want they experience variable results: sometimes they work, and sometimes they don’t.

And of course when this happens it leads one to think that the way in which manifestation and the law of attraction are presented in so many places and by so many authors is nothing but a piece of marketing hype.

But the reality is that when the law of attraction fails it isn’t because this universal law of attraction has somehow selected you as a victim, someone for whom manifestation is not possible, nor is it your fault for not being pure and godlike enough!

Desire is a powerful motivator for manifestation
Desire is a powerful motivator for manifestation

The reality is that the words you are using are probably not the correct words to manifest something successfully. Use the right words and you will be able to direct the universe to give you whatever you desire.

On this theme, Pam Grout has written a book in which she describes how the concept of Think and Grow Rich should be replaced by the concept of Thank and Grow Rich!

What she means by this is that abundance and gratitude are intimately linked.

When you feel gratitude and happiness and joy, your success at manifestation will increase exponentially. It seems that the universe responds to an open-minded state of being in which you can appreciate what the universe is willing to offer you by releasing and letting go.

I mean, when you think about it, happiness and gratitude are underpinned by a state of being which is really all about trust.

And trust is one of the key factors in manifesting anything successfully – when you trust the universe to deliver what you want, what you find is that things flow into your life unexpectedly. This is a state in which you let go of what has been called the “cursed house” – in other words, you let go of the details of how something is going to manifest for you, and you surrendered to the will of the universe, which, when you think about it, probably knows infinitely more about the possibilities open to you than you do.

You see, happiness and gratitude aren’t only a symptom of joyous existence – they are symptomatic of a state of being in which you know that the universe is a godlike universe with infinite intelligence and it is willing – and indeed able – to supply you with whatever you desire at the drop of a hat.

Manifestation on the Law of attraction work for you just as they work for everybody, when you are in  the appropriate emotional state. If it isn’t working for you at the moment, the best thing to do is to work out the emotional context in which you’re trying to manifest reality, and perhaps to change it for something different.

Now I know this may sound esoteric and slightly problematic if you’re not very familiar with the concept manifestation and law of attraction.

In particular, that can be true if you only read the writings of those authors whose words would suggest that the man behind the words is an expert in manifestation. (The sad truth being that many people manifest wealth by writing books about how to manifest wealth!)

What I’m saying here is not really something that is couched in esoteric and mysterious terms – it’s quite simple, really.

What you need to do is summon up an attitude of gratitude and emotion of thankfulness, and to sit back, let go of your desires, and allow the universe to offer its abundant resources to you.

Your job is merely to specify the general area in which you’d like something to manifest, and then to trust the universe to co-create it with you.